You've been carrying this alone.
not anymore.
Carried makes the mental load visible, shareable, and finally not just yours.
of the household's mental load is carried by mums, even in dual-income Australian homes.
How much of this lives in your head?
Carried is where all of it goes.
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No system to learn. Just the rhythm of putting things down.
Drop it
Capture a load-thought in seconds, before it becomes 2am inventory.
Share it properly
Hand over a whole area to own end to end, not a chore to be reminded about.
Put it down
The system remembers, so you don't have to.
Built for real life, not ideal conditions
The Drop
Voice-first capture while driving or feeding. Speak it, and it's caught and sorted for you.
The Release
An end-of-day offload, so your nervous system finally gets to rest.
The Files
39 named areas of invisible family work, each ready to hand over in full.
The Share
Full ownership of an area, the thinking included, not just the doing.
The Rhythm
Five minutes on Sunday. One question: is the load fair this week?
Goals
Big things broken into small, under-30-minute daily steps.
Plus the quiet ones: a daily load picture, cycle reminders, a TOG sleep-bag weather guide, and a wins jar.
It lives on your phone, not in your head
Morning, Tiarne.
The Bridge
Context before tasks, always. A short piece you read together first, so your partner comes in owning a lane, not helping out.
The invisible made visible
Her real load, in plain language, specific to your family.
The why
The mental load explained. A system problem, not a personal failing.
The invitation
He chooses his areas. Invited, not assigned.
The Rhythm commitment
You both agree to the Sunday check-in before you finish.
Dinner, decided.
The week's dinners and the shopping list, done for you. Free.
Carried was built by Tiarne Banks, a mum of two in Thirroul, before sunrise, because she needed it first.
She left twelve years of bridal makeup to build it solo. It's the app she wished existed at 9pm, with a full head and a quiet house.
put it down.
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